A client has revealed an abusive relationship and needs help leaving safely. What should you do?

Engaging the client in developing a safety plan is essential when dealing with someone in an abusive relationship. A safety plan is a personalized, practical plan that includes various strategies to help the individual stay safe. It empowers the client by allowing them to consider their options and think through potential escape routes, safe places to go, and resources available to them.

Creating a safety plan involves assessing the client's specific situation and needs, which fosters a sense of control and self-efficacy. This approach is particularly critical in abusive situations, where the safety of the client can be threatened in multiple ways, and having a well-thought-out plan can be life-saving.

While confronting an abuser might seem like a way to resolve the situation, it often escalates danger and puts the client at greater risk. Suggesting they move in with a friend, without a thorough assessment of the situation, may not address the underlying risks adequately. Reporting to the police might be necessary in some cases, but it is generally a decision that should involve the client's wish and readiness, as it can have serious implications for their safety and agency. Therefore, focusing on developing a safety plan prioritizes the client's well-being and autonomy.